fix: if 2 proxies refer to multiple objects the merge unsyncs them causing a recursion depth error

music_kraken/objects/parents.py

@@ -26,9 +26,11 @@ class InnerData:
     If the data in the wrapper class has to be merged, then this class is just replaced and garbage collected.
     """
 
-    _multiple_instances = False
+    _refers_to_instances: set = None
 
     def __init__(self, object_type, **kwargs):
+        self._refers_to_instances = set()
+        
         # initialize the default values
         self.__default_values = {}
         for name, factory in object_type._default_factories.items():
@@ -176,23 +178,28 @@ class OuterProxy:
         :return:
         """
         if __other is None:
-            _ = "debug"
             return
 
         a = self
         b = __other
 
-        if a._inner._multiple_instances and b._inner._multiple_instances:
-            LOGGER.warning(f"Both instances data obj are shared over multiple objects. This will lead so them being unsynchronized at some point. {a} {b}")
+        if a._inner is b._inner:
+            return
 
-        if b._inner._multiple_instances:
+        # switch instances if more efficient
+        if len(b._inner._refers_to_instances) > len(a._inner._refers_to_instances):
             a, b = b, a
 
         a._inner.__merge__(b._inner, override=override)
+
+        if len(b._inner._refers_to_instances) > 1:
+            for instance in b._inner._refers_to_instances:
+                instance._inner = a._inner
+
         b._inner = a._inner
 
-
-        b._inner._multiple_instances = True
+        b._inner._refers_to_instances.add(a)
+        b._inner._refers_to_instances.add(b)
 
     def mark_as_fetched(self, *url_hash_list: List[str]):
         for url_hash in url_hash_list: